Recap: Professional Development & The Art Of Great Networking! May 22, 2014

Do you remember playing a game called hot and cold where one person would hide something and you had to find it?  The hotter you became to the object revealed by the person who hid the item, the closer you were to it.  The colder you became to the object, the further you were from it.  We have this same paradigm in ourselves where the more we focus on past success' the closer we get to our goals.  The more we focus on past failures, the further and longer it takes to reach our goals and dreams.  It's like we wear a certain colour of glasses for success' and different colour glasses for failures and other negative thoughts.  With the Law of Attraction we will attract where we vibrate so positives will lead to more positives and negatives will lead to more negatives.  Last night Steve helped us to realize how to win our game.  What is our game?  It's setting our dream intention and achieving it.  As kids we loved games whether it be board games or imaginary ones.  The game of our dreams can be considered an imaginary game and board game mixed together.  There is strategy, trust, faith, past experience, research and a number of other tasks involved with reaching our goals and dreams.  It's a great journey for those who have the heart and mind for it.  If the dream comes from your soul, then your heart and mind will be on board with the right tools to achieve what is meaningful to you.  Steve's heart and mind were on track with his soul agenda last night to teach, inspire and encourage how to realize our dreams.  The group discussion was thought provoking and engaging with everyone taking part in the conversation.

For more information on this event please go to www.soulcitysocial.com

Topics of the evening:

Appreciation
To serve others                                      Health                                        Energy towards success
Roof over head                                     Community                                The unknown
Living in Canada                                  Laughter                                     Opportunities
Gorgeous weather                                Mentors                                       Being whole and complete
Family/Friends                                     Good future                                Challenges to help grow
Diversity                                              Programming code                     Share experiences with others
Generosity                                           Winter is over



Challenges to reaching our dreams:
Limiting beliefs                                   Fear of failure                              Not a good support system
Fear of success                                   Societal conditioning                    People forget the dream
Procrastination                                    Low self esteem                           Lack of focus
Stereotypes                                         Lack of internalizing the risk       Negative thinking
Mocking                                             Rejection                                      Criticism
Lack of faith                                       Lack of plan                                 Lack of social networking
Self doubt

Strategies to going for your dreams:
Take inspired action to work smart rather than hard
Grasp it when it comes                                   
Look to  play again
What is it about your goal that makes you want it-the real dream is about how you feel with it
Ask yourself is this your dream or someone else's dream
Focus on goal and be guided by feelings
Focus on love, gratitude and faith
Leave this world better than how I came in

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Recap: In the Midst of Planetary and Personal Transformation! (Franco De Nicola) May 15, 2014

 

 

Life has a great deal of twists and turns, ups and downs that it can be difficult to find the true essence of who we are.  Everyday we wake up to many possibilities sometimes leading to being overwhelmed.  We fall prey to victim and victimizer scenarios thinking this is the only option.  We hear rumours of change, however, it's all too illusive to gain any personal insight and triumph.  Franco De Nicola came to speak at this event giving hope that everything can and will be great again.  This was our wake up call to shine a light on our authenticity and feel great about who we are and the qualities we possess.  the planet is on a course to move into higher dimensions and we are set for a great rollercoaster ride of fun and excitement.  We no longer need to be victims or victimizers, we have the magic wand to transform our lives to be sovereign and inspired.  Earth is our playground and we need to recognize we can manifest everything we want in this sandbox of choices.  Freedom isn't a myth, it's a real tangible component of our soul essence and all we need to do is ask for it. 

 

The empowered life process is about being and giving who we are in order to do what we want and get what we want. This may sound selfish, but it is not – in order to give greatness to others, we must first be able to give greatness to ourselves.  We can learn how to give this greatness to everyone (including ourselves) with passion. We only experience an energy drain when we resist our greatness. When we give it, everyone around us feels it and returns it. When others resist it, we can give even more by understanding where they are coming from. With compassion we can help them to access their greatness. If they continue to resist, we can then move on and feel great knowing that we have become a bright light shining on them and we have brilliantly fulfilled our purpose.  We will then find true success and we will more than just like our lives; we will love them!

 

Steve and Franco were a powerful team.  Steve was masterful at making sure the event ran smoothly to ensure all the guests had the right elements and atmosphere to create comfort and ease for learning.  Franco captured the hearts of the audience to greater awareness and perspectives.  His intentions were to create maximum potential for the audience and have us more than believe it, to know it!  Success was created!  For more information on this event please go to www.soulcitysocial.com

 

Topics Covered:

 

Appreciation

In from the rain                             Energy                               Great life

System change                              Love at this event              Spouse

Health                                           Resilience                          Consciousness

 

 

Franco's Discussion:

Movement is taking place on planet, I am the creator of everything that exists, I create the illusion, you are a magnificent manifestor regardless of what is manifesting, life is what we want to make with it, there is nothing wrong with the world, we are all one, we are all playmates and have amazing experiences, I am the essence of all having a human experience, results will occur only when the issue is addressed, each incarnation gave opportunity to take baby steps, enlightenment can occur in this lifetime rather than many lifetimes, one way or another we are upgrading the playground, you become creator of realities

 Questions (The quest for answers)

 

What is consciousness?

tapping to who you truly know, accessing a higher knowing of who you are

Things are constantly going wrong in my home, what is going on?

How is the energy in home, flowing or not flowing in a positive spectrum, pay attention to what comes up and see if anything needs to be changed

Advice to someone positive surrounded by negativity and wants to make a contribution?

Don’t get caught up in negativity, you still have a frequency in you if you are being triggered,

What advice to give someone who is resisting?

Don’t get caught up in 3D world, you reflect the essence you are instead of expecting them to change

With the freedom of options it can be confusing, what do I do?

When you are coming from soul/heart variety and choice is exciting, feel your way to the next step, whatever you choose you can’t go wrong.

One camp saying world is broken, other camp saying world is perfect what do you say to them?

we go beyond seeing anything is broken.  When you see perfection, than nothing needs fixing.

Things are speeding up, what’s causing things to speed up and why now?

There has been small changes (.4 in hertz) we are just passing 14 hertz on the planet.  There is a realignment of planets, downloads of inner consciousness.  We are going through an evolutionary or enlightenment cycle.  Collectively we agreed to upgrade to shift consciousness and vibration.

Remembering or Letting go of who you are? 

Letting go of idea/perception of who you are and tapping into who you truly are.

What role does music play? 

Stimulates different states of consciousness, 440 hertz you feel it in your head, 432 hertz feel it in whole body, music for meditation, state of being.  Music synchronizes everyone at once.

Polarity vs. Relationship, have we misunderstand masculine vs feminine?

We need someone opposite of and attracted to someone we can’t do right now.  True relationships has a small part to do with polarity.  True match making is coming from soul to soul.  It’s about assisting each other to grow on a soul level.  Different levels of love, love changes to unconditional love or fades.

In a non dual paradigm, what role does ethics play?

We don’t have to have victim, victimizer anymore.  Roles being played are being shifted, it’s a mind construct where we judge polarity.

Assuming there are similar souls, how are you going from planet to planet?

The roles have changed from working with the matrix, timeline, beings off planet, allowing us to not get caught up in polarity world.  When travel it’s in a lighter body, pop in with non physical.

How can we feel empowered but not feel lesser than teacher? 

The teachers coming in are just sharing a message that they received but, we are all equal.  At soul, teachers are another facet of ourselves and the teacher is just accessing what I’m not able to do at this time.  There is no hierarchy.  When you are going to a certain level of consciousness, you become awakened or source conscious.  You create a new playground of equals.

 

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Recap: Attracting The Right Partner For You! May 8, 2014

Questions, questions and more questions. Do you wonder what makes a relationship work?  Would about how to attract that great relationship you have seen time and time again?  How did others attract it and create magic?    Sometimes we see these relationships all around us and we have two choices to make, either have it haunt us thinking "why can't I find it" or appreciate it thinking "I am building up my portfolio of what I want and when the time is right I will attract the right partner".    Steve did a great service creating this event to teach us about appreciation and the law of attraction with attracting the right partner.  The law of attraction is about vibrating with what you want so you can attract it.  Dating and relationships can, should and will be a great experience when you can recognize who you are on a soul level, put on your adventure hat and become inspired to find your soul mate.  In fact, think of Steve's group as a launching point to start fresh re-membering the magnificent being you are, ready to seize the day by loving yourself and accomplishing your dreams of attracting the right partner. In a world of love where up is down, left is right, logical can be illogical and reason can be treason, there was the right place for many to figure this out and it was Steve's event called "Attracting The Right Partner For You!".
For more information on this event please go to www.soulcitysocial.com


At this event Steve asked the group some great questions and I will ask them to you the reader.  Please comment on this page or the event page with your answers.

1) How can you discern the sincerity of a guys intention?
2) Do men have a similar issue of discerning the sincerity of a woman?
3)What is the rule of thumb to discern between friends and lovers?
4)Does age play a difference in intention?
5)What is the goal when two people commit to each other?
6)How long does the flirting stage last?
7)What is harder, getting into a relationship and being compatible or keeping the relationship alive for the long term?
8) How much excitement do you need to have to commit for the long term?
9)If you are a skeptical about finding the right partner what reasons do you have?
10)Was dating easier in our 20's than now?
11) Have you ever been in love?
12)Is it destiny you finding the right partner or personal responsibility?
13)Is there just one soul mate or more than one?
14)What are things we can do to help with finding the right partner?
15)Is smiling a signal or just natural?
16)Where is it appropriate to put on a smile and make eye contact?
17)Is there a different smile between being nice and feeling attracted to someone?
18)Do men understand different kinds of smiles from women?
19) What is shyness and how can we overcome it?
20) How do you feel if an attractive person comes and talks to you unexpectedly?
21) What are activities you enjoy doing in your life?
22) What are great date ideas? eg. bowling, mini golf, concert, walk, Canada's Wonderland, boating, comedy show, galleries, canoeing
23) Would you do it alone?
24) Who are role models for women?
25)Who are role models for men?

For more information on future events please go to www.soulcitysocial.com

For answers to the above questions please email me at soulcityneil@gmail.com

 

 

 

Recap: Dating with Greater Ease and Results! (Lesley Edwards) May 1, 2014

Thank you thank you thank you we are relationship and dating magnets!  This was the theme last night as people were really paying attention to Lesley Edwards, a great dynamic facilitator.  The audience really stuck together with support, enthusiasm and appreciation with what Lesley and other fellow guests shared.  Lesley came from her heart when presenting and people felt that she cared about them.  Lesley asked the audience what makes an awesome date and the feedback was honesty, flow, being yourself and fun to name a few.  This sounds like a great recipe of how we should treat ourselves first and master these qualities to gain experience and then master it on others.  We need to have a relationship and love ourselves first before we love another.  Lesley gave some valuable insights and information using exercises, group discussions and examples to show how to date with greater ease and get results.  Steve always brings in the best presenters showing he is truly committed to the well being of his audience and fellow guests.  For more information on this event please go to www.soulcitysocial.com

Topics Covered:
Beliefs Audience Shares Around Dating Is Hard
Boring                                             Finding a date is hard work
Lack of quality/depth                     People aren't honest
Being Confused                             Bad Personal Hygiene
Different Intentions                       Are they interested
Religion can be a conflict             Hears from other "I'm not dating now"
Viscous cycles                              Worry

Beliefs Audience Shares Around Dating Is Awesome:
Trust                                              Back and forth conversation
Flow                                              Being Yourself
Fun                                                Curious
Leave the past in the past or don't use it as major content
Focus on the other person

Chemistry Vs. Compatibility
What Is Chemistry?

Physical attraction                                    Same interests
Intellectual stimulation                            Hormones
Pheromones                                             More than physical connections
Spiritual Connection


4 Types Of Attraction:
1)Physical attraction-How a person looks, moves and smells
2)Emotional attraction-How a person feels
3)Mental attraction-How a person is stimulated intellectually, humour and interests
4)Spiritual attraction-Having a similar belief about life

What Attracts A Man To A Woman?
First it's physical attraction followed by emotional attraction and then mental attraction

What Attracts A Woman To A Man?
First it's mental attraction followed by emotional attraction and then physical attraction.  When women feels that the men cares they like it.

What Is Compatibility?
Personalities, value systems, life styles, interests, compatible of existing together in harmony, a natural alignment of values,

The difference between chemistry and compatibility is sexual attraction.

Flirting
Confident in self                                        Eye Contact
Sense of humour                                        Teasing
Notty                                                          Making jokes
Way you say something                            Little bit of the riskee


Are there rules around going from dating to a relationship?
Get your commitments aligned.  Crucial conversations and communication are important

General Information:
Elusive chemistry is either there or not, can't be developed where most other things can.  We have a craving for a love story, it takes something to create that kind of love.  Communication needs a give and take.  Be clear about your intention such as I want to take you out.  Don't say call you later of had a great time if you really didn't.  Always be honest and straight forward.


For more information on future events please go to www.soulcitysocial.com