Are You
Ready To Love And Be Loved?
Spring is
just around the corner and there is still snow on the ground. The good news is that we are starting to have
warm spurts of weather. Torontonians
have been waiting a long time for warmer weather and to have glimpses again of
what it’s like is a great gift. The
question is can our hearts be as kind.
Can we give ourselves the gift of romance? Can we show spurts of warmth and
affection? This is a great time to
master the inner game of loving ourselves and gain the ability to love someone
else. Steve Flemming’s event on
attracting the right partner educated us to do this very thing. Law of attraction according to a definition
given by a fellow guest at the event dictates you are what you attract. Meaning when you love and accept yourself you
will attract that.
One of the
key topics discussed at “Attracting The Right Partner” was how to approach
someone. We discussed there are certain
times when a woman can approach a guy being at a bar, grocery store and on
vacation. A great start to the approach
is with eye contact and a smile (this can be applied to both sexes). Also, calm any fears you may have by breathing,
relaxing, letting go of expectations, be present and playful. When a woman
engages a man, it’s best for the man to be honest, genuine, funny and playful. It’s best for the woman to show genuine
interest, be real, funny and playful.
Guy’s need to remember more is less sometimes so not too much touching,
staring and negativity. Lastly, hopefully chemistry and compatibility will play
the tango with each other to create a song lasting sometimes an eternity. When all of these ingredients are applied it
can create connection, love, companionship, stability, security and a better
version of you. Steve brought the group
together to teach us the ingredients, however, will you be able to become
vulnerable again with a warm heart or is there just too much snow keeping it
cold.
There are a
lot of challenges we face and these are:
Time Trusting again
Culture Differences
Bad experiences Compatibility
Connections Values
Personality
Conflicts Not sure where to go
Rushing into
it Limiting
Beliefs
Boredom Chemistry
Confidence Fear
Stress
Making same mistake
Friend Zone
It’s no
wonder why people have such a hard time being open to love. It can be draining to pursue the quest for
love and happiness. This is what makes
Steve’s events so important. It gives a
roadmap for success!
Have a happy
and loving journey from Steve and myself!
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